Ever wondered if that guy you laugh with, share coffees, and hug could be more than just a friend? The Amoutiê Scale—a fun blend of love and friendship insights—lets you assess your connection without awkward conversations. As relationship experts who've counseled countless couples, we've seen these dynamics play out time and again. Place yourself on the scale below to gauge your potential.
You met through mutual friends, work, or a random night out. He's smitten—bombarding you with late-night texts, brushing your hand at coffee, gazing with unmistakable longing. But for you? Zero spark. You share little in common, and the thought of kissing him feels all wrong.
Deep down, you know it's not there. Fresh from a breakup or seeking comfort? Be kind but honest. Wait for someone who truly excites you.
Chances of winning if you try: 99.90%
Chances of it working: 0%
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You've known each other forever—belching contests and all. Changing clothes nearby? Zero reaction. 'Like a brother!' Exactly. Pure platonic bliss.
Chances of winning if you try: 0.2%
Chances of it working: 0.000000001%
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Handsome, hilarious, brilliant. You cuddle and crash together, but romance? Off the table. It's like having a boyfriend minus the intimacy—refreshingly uncomplicated.
Chances of winning if you try: 0.5% (in a trio scenario)
Chances of it working: 0%
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After dating letdowns, many straight women ponder trying things with a female friend. Some discover real attraction; others enjoy the tenderness but miss that deeper flutter.
If it's just pleasant but not passionate, take a break, reconnect as friends, and stay open to love—there's a great guy out there waiting.
Chances of closing if you try (with your girl friend who likes girls): 40%
Chances of it working with her: 10%
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You nearly dated once, but it fizzled. Now, only tension and frustration linger, punctuated by blowout fights and long silences.
Reunions spark intensely, fueling 'what if' fantasies. But real support? Lacking. If it was meant to be, it would've happened. Let go of the past illusion.
Chances of winning if you try: 80%
Chances of it working: 0%
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Playful banter, knowing glances, flirty digs—you both swear it's 'just friends.' But the thrill of pursuit boosts your confidence and spices life.
Your interest might stem solely from that game. Crossing into dating could end the fun. Weigh it based on your feelings—things rarely stay static here.
Chances of winning if you try: 70%
Chances of it working: 30%
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Love him! Hate him! Love him again! The push-pull is maddening—you crave both strangling and kissing him. Truth: He's no friend; raw attraction simmers beneath.
Own your feelings, dive in, and see if it's heart or heat driving you. Clarity awaits post-passion.
Chances of winning if you try: 98%
Chances of it working: 65%
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No question: deep affection flows. But is it platonic or romantic? Long hugs, cozy cuddles—the world fades in his arms, everything feels effortless.
This screams love beyond friendship. Take the leap; magic awaits.
Chances of winning if you try: 75%
Chances of it working: 95%
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You share everything—constant calls, hangouts, thoughts. No news? Gut-wrenching. You veto each other's partners instinctively.
Newsflash: You're best friends and soulmates. Nothing beats that combo. Here's to your happily ever after!
Chances of winning if you try: 95%
Chances of it working: 95%
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Mutual love, unspoken fears holding you back: 'Too scary,' 'Too complicated.' Life's short—rare connections like this deserve a shot.
Chances of winning if you try: 95%
Chances of it working: 95%
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Your ultimate: best friend, lover, life partner. Cohabiting, intimate, passionate. Relationship goals achieved. Congrats!
Chances of winning if you try: 99.99999%
Chances of it working: 99.99999%
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