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Why Every Mom Deserves a Friends-Only Holiday: Lessons from My Austrian Ski Trip

I shared on Facebook about my recent skiing getaway with friends. What I didn't mention? It didn't end as smoothly as it started. But first things first—here's why you should prioritize a holiday with friends, whether hitting the slopes or chasing the sun.

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On holiday with friends, with or without guilt

I've reflected on this over the past week: Should I feel guilty? I took a short break, leaving my husband, kids, and dog at home.

This was my first solo friends' trip without family. I've traveled to Marrakech with my partner for five days kid-free, and I've done countless press trips solo. Those were with my partner or for work. This time? Purely with girlfriends.

A twinge of guilt hit occasionally—swooshing down slopes with four other women, basking in the sun, then après-ski bliss. Is that allowed? Absolutely!

Why every woman should do this when she has the opportunity

As a mom and seasoned traveler, I firmly believe every woman—especially mothers—should seize these chances. Escape with friends for true downtime. No rushed sauna sessions before bedtime routines. No high tea interrupted by dinner plans. Just genuine relaxation, like the good old days.

To the snow or the sun on holiday with friends?

Destination doesn't matter—snow for skiing, sun for lounging, or culture. A few days away from husband and kids works wonders.

It might sound blunt, but this recharges you profoundly. The energy boost from even a short friends' holiday sustains you long after.

Five days on holiday with friends, on the skis!

We chose five days skiing in Austria with five girlfriends. Two were travel days by car, leaving three full ski days (I lost half a day—details tomorrow). Even travel counts as vacation: cozy catch-ups and restful naps.

Four moms and one non-mom? Perfect balance. She worried we'd bail on après-ski; instead, we skipped hotel dinners twice! Straight from slopes to pub. Epic.

By plane or car?

Both work. Flying seems easier, but factor in airport waits. We planned to fly but drove—no regrets. With infrequent meetups, 8 hours chatting flew by.

Pro tip from experience: Check car insurance for shared driving. One car meant verifying all could drive it—cleared, but essential. For Austria, buy a digital vignette online (delivered in 1-2 hours). Avoid fines; spend on après-ski instead.

Pub tigers as usual

These trips reconnect you to your fun-loving self. I danced like old times—haven't in years. Home nights out pale compared to Gerlos's Cin Cin bar, a local favorite for its vibe. Family dinners are lovely, but friends' holidays spark deeper talks and silly laughs.

Longer trips? Expect profound conversations amid the fun. We howled over nothing.

Quick recap: Why go? Teaser—the mishap tomorrow!

For these reasons you go on holiday with friends

  • You truly unplug and relax
  • Conversations shift beyond family
  • Energy surge for post-trip life
  • Headspace to clear your mind
  • Freedom from kid schedules—eat, snack, drink freely (water for me! 😊)
  • Simpler planning without family logistics
  • No constant 'Mama!'

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