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What is no sex?

A little reminder for our reader friends who haven't heard of this trend:"no sex" is a movement (an ideology), straight from the United States, which advocates sexual abstinence. Clearly:nib, nada, niet, haro on the pecker. Well, had to think about it. But beware, it doesn't come out of nowhere, no sex is a response to over sex. Yes, to survive in our society where ass is everywhere, it would be enough to eradicate it. However, let's not laugh too quickly because the observation is not completely off the mark. Let's recognize that today, we women are kind of asked to have the sexuality of a multi-orgasmic pornstar from Eastern Europe, if we want to be operational. And that it is not always very easy to manage when you have the sexuality of a Breton worker with variable enjoyment. But from there to say that the solution is in abstinence, frankly, there are limits. Yeah, we're not ready to swallow anything anyway (because, you know, we don't have a pornstar's brain either).

Nice try…

Even if, even if, -let's take honesty to the end-, we must also recognize that the temptation is great. Just imagine the scene. One weeknight, our man complains that we don't practice enough to repopulate France. We, at ease in our Isotoner, we jump at the chance to answer him with a relaxed look, raising our eyes to the sky:“Pfeeuu, what you can be has-been my poor Raoul. It's completely over the ass, now the trend is zero sexuality. Do we have to do it, we are an avant-garde couple ”. Tempting (it's more comfortable to tell yourself that you've chosen no sex rather than undergoing it) but crap in the long run. 1/ Firstly because this "no sex" movement is more than borderline since it goes so far as to recommend arriving a virgin at marriage (yeah, and why not the fluff con to motivate the one who would refuse during the night of wedding? And above all 2/ because it's sad to die for, it's anti-life, anti-love, anti-sensation. Besides, what is the next step? No laughing, let's stop laughing to fight against the ambient derision...

… But we still want sex

Frankly, what girl, masked or not, rejoices (rejoices hi, hi) to say to herself:"oh me, sex is from memory". Answer:none. Because it's absolutely obvious:no one wants a life without sex. And even stronger, it seems that in times of crisis, we would ask for more. According to University of Kansas psychology professor Omri Gillath, "the recession is boosting sexual activity, due to the resurgence of our animal survival instincts." Enough to leave the no sex on the ass and we, in Biba, to launch the "yes kiki". Either alone or in pairs, excessive fiddling with anything resembling an erogenous and highly jubilant zone.

* Le magazine du Monde, November 19, 2011.