"Mommy, will you marry me?" Rory Blokzijl hears this sweet question from her daughter often. So when Playmobil invited her to a wedding party at Speelpark Oud Valkeveen, she could finally say 'yes!' Read her heartfelt story.
“Mommy, will you please marry me?” It's a question that arises frequently—right before bedtime or during cozy Sunday morning cuddles. “Honey, maybe you'll want to marry a nice boy someday.” “No, Mom, I want to marry you!”
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As an experienced mom, I've heard this adorable question from my daughter countless times. It's not just "Mommy, will you marry me?"—it sparks a world of curious follow-ups. 😊
We've had deep chats about love and marriage: girls with boys, girls with girls, boys with boys. "But Mom, how do they have a baby?" I always reassure her: "Everything is possible, sweetie. It might take a bit longer or be more challenging, but love finds a way."
Raising my daughter means fostering an open mindset—no rigid boxes or limitations. This extends to her worldview, including topics like bullying, which her school addresses thoughtfully. Our parenting style is straightforward and honest, setting age-appropriate boundaries (no scary stories yet) while building trust.
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Children sense evasion instantly, so I believe in gentle honesty, especially with toddlers. This all ties back to "Mommy, will you marry me?" Perfect timing: Joyce from MamsatWork invited me to a magical event at our favorite Speelpark Oud Valkeveen, where my husband and daughter Mila have annual passes for full-day adventures.
Last Wednesday, excitement peaked as the Playmobil Knight and Princess tied the knot! We attended, and Mila was invited to "marry" for a day. She chose me—her mom. It was special, tender, and emotional.
We weren't just guests; we were the stars of our own ceremony. "Mommy, what should I wear? Are you wearing a dress?" With forecasts hitting 27°C after rainy days, Mila donned a romantic dress, and I opted for a skirt and camisole—perfect for our playful wedding.
The park transformed into a wedding wonderland: life-sized Playmobil figures with balloons, romantic toys ready for play, a pink carpet, and hedges for all couples—big or small, young or old. Kids buzzed with joy; vows led to balloon releases and Playmobil cupcakes. A true celebration (#PLAYMOBILthewedding)!
It was a perfect afternoon, especially for Mila after school. May 16, 2017: the day we became newlyweds, mother and daughter. Thank you, Playmobil, for this unforgettable Knight and Princess wedding—and ours.
