"They're not really that in love—they're just overcompensating!" That's the snarky comment we often hear from friends when couples flood Facebook with romantic photos from beach getaways, concerts, and mountain hikes. It can feel overwhelming.
We love seeing couples happy, but let's be honest: 1) Public displays of intimacy, like steamy selfies, can sometimes feel too personal, and 2) A twinge of envy hits when we're binge-watching Cold Case alone (hey, no one's perfect).
Research by psychologist Mai-Ly Steers challenges this view. Her study suggests these couples aren't faking it—they're sharing a key part of their lives. "Posting multiple statuses and photos about the relationship reinforces its commitment and makes it feel more official," Steers explains.
Of course, private sharing works just as well. Every couple has their own style, and social media blessings aren't required for a strong bond.